Monday, March 24, 2008

Fire Horror

I have never written of the experience we went through when Landon fell into the camping coals. I chose not to write about it for a number of reasons, but now it's time. I won't go into the details of the recovery. First, because it would take up a novel and second, because I'm not sure I'm ready to relive it all again. But if you only have a moment to read, skip down to the last five paragraphs. Those are the most important ones. They are my testimony.

We had a group of friends from our stake in Fort Worth that would go camping quite regularly. We participated in several of these camp outs and the accident happened on one of these trips. Scott wasn't able to go on this particular camp out because of his work schedule, but I was in charge of the camp out this weekend so I packed up the boys and set out feeling confident that between me and our friends, all would be well.

We were located in a large grassy area next to a river that led into a lake that the kids were able to go canoeing on. We got there early with two other families and had a wonderful afternoon setting up camp. We were joined by several other families before dinner. We cooked dinner using a dutch oven underneath white hot coals and after the meal, the adults stayed near the coal pit and sang songs as the kids ran and played around the campsite.

It happened so fast. I don't know how he got there or how it happened, but suddenly Landon was inside the coal pit. I don't remember pulling him out, but I was told by the Seaman's that it was indeed me that did. I just remember running with him in my arms looking for the closest water. I just kept repeating the words "no, God, not him" in my head. I held my baby in my arms as I watched what looked like candles melting at warp speed where his hands should have been.

My very first impulse was for him to receive a blessing. Someone had oil and a blessing was given within moments of the accident. The blessing went along as normal as most, but 3/4 of the way through, he paused ... he said, "your hands will heal, and your mother will know what to do." There was another pause ... then the blessing finished normally.

The friends camping with us were all in the medical field. Some going through medical school, some already nursing, some finishing further medical training. They assured me that they could do anything that the hospital would do but that it was my decision as to whether to take Landon 45 minutes to the nearest hospital. I was pulled in two directions. My instinct was to take him immediately to the hospital, but I trusted my friends and knew they only wanted the best for us. It was as I remembered the words of his blessing that I knew I needed to follow my first instinct and take him to the hospital.

Colbey stayed at the camp site with the other families while I drove Landon and one of the nurses there camping with us to Cooks Childrens Hospital. The moment we ran into the emergency room, they hurried us back and took charge of Landon. I was so grateful that they didn't make us wait to fill out paperwork, or sign-in, or anything else like that. We ran in the door yelling burns and we were swept right in.

His burns were more severe than the hospital could handle and they informed us that Landon needed to be taken to Parkland Hospital. It is one of the premiere burn hospitals in the western region. I rode in the ambulance with Landon and Scott followed as we moved to the new hospital.

Once there, Landon was taken into ICU and we were not allowed to see him. We had done the worst thing possible for a burn. When it happened, we wrapped his hands up in ice and so he went from one extreme to the other extreme. They weren't sure he would keep his hands.

Those days were some of the blackest in my memory. How is it that when your world is falling apart, the rest of the world keeps on going? While we were dealing with this horror, we still had to deal with life. We had to shuffle schedules, take care of Colbey, find replacements for obligations made previously. Maybe it was having to take care of real life that helped us make it through the hell of that time.

Landon spent his second birthday in the hospital.

As time passed, they told us he would keep his hands but that he would need multiple surgeries and skin grafts. We lived at the hospital for months during therapy. We had to learn how to change and bandage a burn victim. We had to be the ones to hold him down as they stripped more and more of his burned flesh off of him. We had to learn how to do the therapy at home. We had to help him adapt to not having the use of his hands. They told us he would regress a year and indeed we saw it. He reverted back to being carried everywhere again. Instead of using a sippy cup or cup, he went back to using a bottle. As he grew older, we could also see that mentally he was about a year behind his age group.

I had nightmares of this time for years after and still occasionally wake up in a cold sweat as they return. But here is where the hand of God touched our lives. When we were leaving for the last time from the hospital, the doctors and therapists stopped us and said, "We don't normally tell this to our patients, but you have been a miracle case. Landon should not have kept his hands. When it became apparent that he would, he should have had surgery after surgery and he hasn't had a single one. We don't understand it. It doesn't make any sense."

Well, I understand it. We were blessed by the Lord. He held Landon in his hands and healed him. The power of the priesthood is real. It was wielded by righteous men in Landon's behalf and it created a miracle. And those miracles continue today. Time after time, the Lord has blessed Landon in his recovery so much so that most people don't even notice his burns.

I know the Lord lives, and I know without a doubt that He loves each of us. I know that He knows us individually and that He cries with us in joy and in pain. I know that the gospel of Jesus Christ as was revealed to Joseph Smith is the only true plan back to our Heavenly Father. I know that with all the bad that surrounded this time, there was good also. I know that Heavenly Father always creates a way for us to triumph and all we need to do is look for it.

I am grateful for the family and friends that supported us through that time. I am supremely grateful for Scott and the support I felt from him. As we traveled through that time, we met many who suffered similar and worse afflictions and I am grateful for the strength that Scott brought to it so that we drew closer together and were not torn apart by it. I am grateful for Colbey, for his patience at being set to the side while we needed to focus our attention on Landon.

I am more grateful than I can express for the teachings I learned growing up in the gospel. I thank you, Mom and Dad, for instilling the knowledge of the truth in me. Even when I falter, it burns strong and pulls me back.

Indeed, I have felt the hand of the Lord in my life.

1 comment:

Kristy said...

Wow, Chrystalee, I had no idea that you guys went through such a trial. I cannot begin to imagine how difficult it must have been. But I was so touched by your vibrant testimony that shined through at the end. I'm grateful that although very tough, this experience brought you closer to your husband and others and that you choose to see the good that came of it. It was beautiful and touching to read. And I loved the music at the end! Gorgeous!!